www.incontinentsupport.org

anyone use them and where do you get them at with out looking to babyish print or color I am between the medium and large diaper brief but cant for the life of me get them to stay up after I have leaked a little bit in them using regular undies over them to hold them up bunches them up to bad and they tent to leak on me please help

AngelFluff has two versions called a concealer. Adultclothdiaper.com has a tee-shirt style too. Kins also has some and even a golf shirt style.

Good luck

Added a link to them, sorry Rope, didn't see you had mentioned Kins already... http://www.babykins.com/store/adult-clothing/, but I got theirs and some from here which are put together MUCH better IMO http://easyaccessclothing.com/ A bit pricey, but worth it if you use them, Puffy

well can not find long sleeve ones to save my butt its been cold here and I have issues with cold and want them long sleeve to help keep me warm don't know what it is with spina bifida and being cold have allways been this way and think its from this but dang my arms get cold if my legs get cold it will hurt worse than sore tooth in my back cant feel my legs very well anyway but I sure do in my back

Check my post for a cheaper alternative. www.incontinentsupport.org/phpBB3/viewt ... f=3&t=1176
This should provide support as well and I had this in mind when I came up with the idea.
Saggy diapers are conspicuous since the don't have the natural conture of the body besides moving in ways the body doesn't. They can also be noisy. I also find them uncomfoterable.

I have onesies from Kins. I use both the summertime type W/O sleeves and the short sleeve golf shirt ones. They both hold up quite well and do the job of keeping everything in place as well as minimizing any sagging.

If you do not want to go all the way to wearing a onsie, try wearing a pair of Underamour compression pants. They significantly help in controlling diaper sag.

--JD